We are getting closer, Valentine’s Day is almost here! Do you have a partner to spend this day with? That partner you always saw yourself with? And what about you? Are you the person that you would have a relationship with?
Tip #5: Be the kind of person you want to attract in your relationship
I saw a lot of people that do not have success in relationships. Or this is what they say. I agree with them that success is something you need to build up. But a relationship to be successful you need to find the right person for you: the one that gives you energy, that makes you feel the most appreciated person, that makes you feel you worth it.
But in the equation me+you=us there is also another person: me! I do find the right person for me, but am I the right person for the other one?
To have a successful relationship first you need to be prepared, you need to be the ideal partner for the other person. You become more attractive, more visible to others that are searching a partner. And if the selection process is successful, the relationship you start has a higher percentage of success.
So ask yourself: Who’s the person that I am really searching for? Who am I and what can I do to be the right person for my current/future partner?
Inspiration for these tips: Tony Robbins and two of my favorite clients that showed me that love is above everything.
Photos: Lidia Dogaru
