There are so many things that want to grab our attention these days! And sometimes we completely forget what are the most important things. If you know what are those things you will not get lost and keep your focus. So chose that your relationship is top priority.
Tip #10: Put your relationship above anything else
It happens very often in the families that just had babies that the partners become like strangers: one gets really busy with work because he feels the responsibility to sustain the new family and the other gets really busy with the child/children. They see each other only for a few hours a day (or even worse: during the night) and then they talk about the urgent daily problems or about the children. They forget about their relationship and about the fact that they need to invest time, affection, humor and share emotions.
Do you put your kids before your relationship? Do you put your work or friends before your relationship?
Create yourself a habit in giving time to your relationship and in making it top priority: as long as you stay together in a strong relationship you will always overcome any problem!
When you put your relationship above anything else, above your work, your friends, your children and your relatives, they will all respect you as a couple, take example from you and will appreciate and give you time for you. They will all see, feel and know that you are stronger in two than as single individuals and will help you if they have the chance.
So, don’t let anyone to come in between you and your partner! Together you can offer even more to your children and families and, if you are happy in your relationship, it’s going to be easier to overcome challenges in work and life.
Inspiration for these tips: Tony Robbins and two of my favorite clients that showed me that love is above everything.
Photos: Lidia Dogaru
